There are those who say that homosexuality is wrong, and that homosexuals should not practice their homosexuality. All homosexuals should abstain.
That is a fine thing to say if you are not homosexual. We are what we are - I earnestly believe that in the debate of "nature versus nurture", nature has the greatest influence, and that we are mostly born that way. We do not have a choice.
I believe that abstinence can cause depression and worse to occur - that as living beings, we have as much need to have sexual fulfillment as the next man.
The fact is that I am gay, I am married (whether I should have married or not) and I have to make the best of the situation that I am in, without hurting too much my loved ones, and yet at the same time, meeting my innermost needs.
How I do that? Well that is where I do have a choice. It may not be easy, but I do have a choice.
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